You saw it happen to others, but you never thought it would happen to you. You and your boyfriend were so much in love and everyone said you were the perfect pair. Then it happened, he said he needed a time out, no other reason, just a time out and now he is gone. You are devastated. Your mind is swirling with questions. What caused him to suddenly want a time out? The truth is that these things never happen suddenly. No doubt there were plenty of warning signs, but you were too much in love to notice. If you had noticed them, you might have been able to prevent the breakup. But it is too late for that now.
The good news is you really can make your ex boyfriend love you again, but you must forget your ego and embarrassment. Your friends and relatives are not going to blame you. They will be on your side. To them, your ex boyfriend is the villain in this story, and you will have all their support and advice. This support and advice could be a big problem for you, if you are not careful. By having their support, you will be inclined to relive the breakup over and over as you tell each of them what happened. This will not help in your ability to accept it and move on.
You also have to be careful of advice that you act upon because you are the one that will have to live with the results. You will be told to let him go and on the other extreme, to go after him and give him a piece of your mind. Letting him go is actually good advice because that is what you need to do if you want to get your ex boyfriend back. Going after him and giving him a piece of your mind could be disastrous. You cannot force someone to love you or want to be with you. That has to be a decision they make on their own.
The best way of getting your ex back is to put yourself in their place. If you had been the one to breakup with your ex, what could he do to make you feel kind toward him instead of wanting to avoid him? It is so easy and simple that it probably will not enter your mind. It is something that you do nearly everyday without thinking. Yet doing it almost always generates a positive response. It is the act of saying I am sorry. This is the tactic that never fails. To get things started toward making him love you again, just call your ex boyfriend and say you are sorry for your part in the breakup.
Make sure you are composed and do not start crying. Keep it short and end the conversation. Do not have anymore contact with him. The rest will be up to your ex boyfriend. The act of showing him that you are mature enough to admit you mistakes should be enough to make him see that you are the woman he should be with.
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